The Mental Burden of Getting Pregnant Out of Wedlock
I was 16 years old and I was pregnant. I committed adultery and deeply regret my actions. I was kept away from my family and now live with my father's relatives. What I want to do here is the unrelentingness of my family cursing at me. I know what I'm doing is a big deal and I've embarrassed my family. But the doctor always reminded me not to think too often so as not to stress, but I couldn't stop thinking about this.
I was afraid to go back to my parents' house, I was afraid to talk to them again, I was stressed. I'm confused where to go. There were thoughts of suicide or running away from my relative's house, but I remembered that God did not accept people who died by suicide. I want to run away and raise my own child. I was so scared that I would be separated by him. What am I supposed to do? Do parents deserve to be drawn on what happened?
Thanks for the attention. I'm waiting for the reward because I need enlightenment.
That's part of the social punishment for adulterers. May your sins be diminished and open up guidance so that you seek repentance, asking for forgiveness for the great sins you committed. You become a person who realizes how important it is to maintain honor, and not be careless in getting along. Especially in today's slang era, people can be very free to commit adultery. And how easily women are beguiled by the seduction of wolf men.
Next, there are some that we advise:
First,take good care of your fetus. Pay attention to their rights. However this fetal process appeared, he did not bear the sins of his parents at all. Both from adultery and rape. Therefore, disturbing this fetus, let alone aborting it is a tyranny and a crime. God says,
وَإِذَا الْمَوْءُودَةُ سُئِلَتْ – بِأَيِّ ذَنْبٍ قُتِلَتْ
"And when the children who were slain were asked, by what cause of sin was he killed?" (QS. At-Takwir: 8 - 9)
Second,take good care of yourself, do not commit acts of inflicting greater sins, such as torturing yourself or suicide. Because the Prophet Muhammad shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam never taught penance by killing himself. In contrast to the teachings of Moses 'alaihis salam. Who commands to atone for sins by suicide for the one who commits self-sedation.
Therefore, whatever the reason, suicide is still worth a very great sin, and God poses a very harsh threat.
From Abu Hurayrah radhiallahu 'anhu,the Prophet shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,
مَنْ تَرَدَّى مِنْ جَبَلٍ فَقَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ فَهُوَ في نَارِ جَهَنَّمَ يَتَرَدَّى فِيهِ خَالِدًا مُخَلَّدًا فِيها أَبَدًا، وَمَنْ تَحَسَّى سُمًّا فَقَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ فَسُمُّهُ في يَدِهِ يَتَحَسَّاهُ في نَارِ جَهَنَّمَ خَالِدًا مُخَلَّدًا فيها أَبَدًا، وَمَنْ قَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ بِحَديدَةٍ فَحَدِيدَتُهُ في يَدِهِ يَجَأُ بِها في بَطْنِهِ في نَارِ جَهَنَّمَ خَالِدًا مُخَلَّدًا فِيها أَبَدًا
"Whoever drops himself from the mountain to death, in hell he will bring himself down, eternal in it forever. Whoever upholds the poison to death, it will be given in his hands, and then he drinks in hell, eternal in it forever. Whoever kills himself with a sharp weapon will be given in his hand and he pierces his stomach in hell, forever." (HR. Bukhari 5778 and Muslim 109).
More information about getting pregnant out of wedlock, you can learn at:
6 Important Lessons to Getting Pregnant Out of Wedlock
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